CAN I GET REAL? going through any heartache

especially Divorce, stinks

it's usually really, really difficult…

I call this kind of pain a modern day rite of passage because it's one of those things that forces you to wake up and say good-bye to a life that isn't working... Good morning sunshine! As a result, you begin to create what you want out of your future. Every day, every moment even, you get to wake up and start anew.


Are you willing to join me?


Yes, I hear you loud and clear… 

and this is what I advise:

  1. Decide to do it and to move on anyway. What have you got to lose?
  2. Commit to owning your choices and making life a success. Make it great for your kids, or for you and your kids. But do it. Because how it's going, isn't working... but you know that already. 
  3. Find someone to help you SEE what you need to be bigger and better than you were in your relationship. (NEWS FLASH: this is not your attorney or your mom or your sister or even your best friend!) Find someone who's been where you are, who can mentor and inspire you to find a way out!


Can you do this alone at first...?

Maybe. I won't say to you DIYers, that you can't, so figure it out! Imagine, get creative, get deeply personal and find someone new who will hold you accountable.