CAN I GET REAL? going through Divorce stinks

it's usually really, really difficult…

I call it a modern day rite of passage because it's one of those things that forces us to become who we’re meant to be saying good-bye to a life that wasn't working.  As a result, you get to create what you want out of your future.  Every day, every moment even, you get to wake up and start anew.


Are you willing to join me?


Yes, I hear you… 

and this is what I advise:

  1. Decide to move on.
  2. Commit to making your life a success; making it great for you (or your kids, or you and your kids). Become driven to be bigger and better than you were yesterday, last week, or while you were in your relationship.
  3. Find a partner to help you see what you need to do. (News flash: this is not your attorney or your mom or your sister or even your best friend.) Find someone who can mentor and inspire you.


You can do this alone at first...

But figure it out, imagine, get creative, get deeply personal and find someone who will hold you accountable.